Harley laughs at the question. "You are the best one to answer that question, yourself."

"Treat it sort of like the ol' boiling a frog situation. Don't call your time together 'dates'. But make the most of spending time together. Do things that make sense. That are things that you would have done together anyway. Slowly heat up the water, and let her ease into being comfortable with the situation."

"I think as long as you both want to be together, it shouldn't really matter if it is called dating or not."