Janet nods slightly. "That's it exactly," she says. "And you're not missing much. I've only been to two."

Her best friend had asked her to come as his date to his colleague's wedding in Miami, and then she had gone as her partner's date to his brother's wedding all the way in England. Both were somewhat awkward since she hadn't known anybody but the person she came with but that was the point. She was there to provide support for her friends. This was different; now she was actively involved in trying to put the thing together and it all seemed so unnecessary.

"You don't realize how complicated these things are until you're reading a dozen articles about things that don't matter," she comments with a laugh. "I feel like I'm back in school."