"There are so many little details. Most of which I think are bullshit, honestly," Janet says bluntly. "If I ever get married, I'm not worrying about any of this."

She had been dating her boyfriend for a year now and marriage was still years away. Her boyfriend had commitment issues to work through first. Being a fellow FBI agent he was very concerned about being able to keep her safe from the people he investigated, even though she pointed out that her own work had its own degree of danger. But they'd agreed to let that subject drop until their relationship was much older.

"Things like picking out colors and seating charts and... I get wanting things to be perfect because of how important the day is, but there's planning and then there's too much detail."