He nods in response to her question, although he doesn't look terribly broken up about it. Maybe a tad bitter. "Yeah, exactly."

Jim returns the confused look at first, until the penny drops. "Really? First time for me, but I guess that's just par for the course around here." He offers his hand to her across the table. Thus far, most of the humanoids he's met here have been okay with introductory handshakes, so he gambles on this being all right here. "Jim Kirk. Apparently you already know that," he adds, with a faintly amused smile.